Mosharrafzaidi.com is a blog about my thoughts, feelings, and opinions about BDSM and relationships, both in general, and based on my own experiences, preferences, and beliefs. Mosharrafzaidi.com contains both general information as well as personal rants and diatribes at times—it’s a part diary, part educational blog site.

As this site continues to evolve, it’s now also turning more into an avenue of a general repository of information about abusive relationships, whether in the BDSM world or in general. While the line between healthy BDSM and abuse can be rather thin, no one deserves to be abused in any context.  It is my goal to make sure that people know the signs—and know how to get out of these relationships before they destroy them.

Furthermore, this site posts links, information, and other material regarding BDSM in general, and for newbies in particular. If by any chance you have constructive comments to say, and if you are willing to be polite in expressing disagreement or to engage in intelligent, respectful discussion and debate—then your comments are welcome. If you want to argue or tell me I am wrong; I reserve the right not to post those comments.

If you find anything that I say offensive, think you might be, or don’t like how I write, then this may not be the place for you—no one is forcing you to read this blog.